Former Melksham woman conquers her weight losing 15st
A former George Ward School pupil who lost a colossal 15 stones is now giving the benefit of her experience to other would-be slimmers.
Alexandra Haynes, a 29-year-old mother of two who grew up in the Forest area of Melksham, had endured a miserable school career as the much-bullied class “fattie”.At the age of 22 and weighing 28.5 stone, she knew she had to take action and signed up at the local Devizes branch of Weight Watchers.
Mrs Haynes, who now lives in Devizes, said: “If I had thought about the enormity of the challenge I had ahead of me, I would never had set out on it. But I never set myself a target. I just wanted to lose as much weight as I could.
“My father, Graeme Brady, was my big inspiration, although my mum and brother helped too. I felt like every little goal I got we reached together.
“His saying was, I always knew you would become my beautiful swan.”
“This is something he often told me when I was growing up, particularly when bullies made life difficult for me at school.”
Mrs Haynes continued to lose weight and when she reached 17.5 stone she became pregnant with the first of her two sons. While she was pregnant Mr Brady continued to encourage her to eat healthily.
Sadly, Mr Brady died suddenly a few years ago, leaving Mrs Haynes devastated and angry.
She said: “But rather than giving up, I looked through my dad’s photo albums and reminded myself just how far I had come and why dad would want me to continue.”
Now Mrs Haynes tips the scales at 13.5 stone and has trained as a Weight Watchers leader.
This month she started her first meetings helping others with weight problems realise their goals.
She said: “They can see what a difference weight loss has made for me and if I can do it, so can they.”
Mrs Haynes’s husband Paul, although he is delighted with his wife’s achievement, is not overwhelmed.
Mrs Haynes said: “Paul knew me when I was at my heaviest.
“So he loves me whatever size I am.”